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Find Time to Turn Problems Upside Down with 3 Questions

Posted on September 7, 2010, under Time Choices, Time Management Skills.

Finding time to actually SOLVE problems is one of the most energizing things you can do! Just watch as one problem successfully solved leads to a dramatic increase in your confidence and energy for taking on new challenges – even in areas that are totally unrelated to your original problem.

Let me share with you three more of my favorite “power questions” for helping you get unstuck.  (You can read two other power questions in last week’s post “Find Time to Get One Step Beyond Stuck“) These have all proven to be remarkably effective in helping my clients move from stymied to successful when a challenge has (temporarily) stopped them in their tracks.

What is it that helps?  At the core of these three questions lies your creativity.  You’re encouraged to tap your creative powers so you can visualize your challenge in fresh ways.  This shift in perspective gives you fresh … even surprising … ideas for solutions, too.

1) What does my stuck place LOOK LIKE?

Your image-rich right brain offers a wealth of fresh insights, if you open to the answers it provides. What DOES this stuck place remind you of? Quicksand? A roadblock? Or is it a threatening figure or animal? Draw a quick sketch to sharpen your insights and to provide fresh clues.

Have fun with this exercise in intuition. Use your ingenuity to progress beyond the obstacle you see impeding your progress. Can you translate this success into a tactic that might carry you one step beyond stuck? If your project is a long-range one, consider asking yourself at bedtime for a dream that enriches your understanding still further.

2) What is this impasse GIVING me?

Try this question when you’re REALLY stumped, and be sure to always speak to yourself with friendly curiosity– not blame! Your intention is to better comprehend that you ALWAYS exercise power – even when you feel stuck. You can redirect your energy to move forward on your project, after you weigh the actual pros and cons of spinning your wheels.

This question also helps you to identify old bargains you may have struck with yourself in earlier times. Once you put words to them and recognize how circumstances have changed, revising those old scripts can proceed quite quickly!

3) Where am I HIDING MY POWER?

Yes, the good news is that it’s there SOMEWHERE – all of your insights and grit to succeed! All you need is to locate your winning energy and discover what is covering it up. Forming a picture of your power calling out to you as you explore beyond the resentment, resistance, and fear can be very inspiring!

You may even decide to cast off some of what stands between you and your progress. Maybe you will let go of an excuse you no longer wish to rely upon, or an unrealistically high standard that has paralyzed you.

Moving beyond stuck points is really self-actualization. Problem solving generates more confidence, clarity and enthusiasm!  So give yourself every advantage – actually try these out! If you these questions wake you up and intrigue you, try printing them out. Then you can refer to them the next time you lose valuable momentum.

Want to explore your True Power and your Wise Inner Voice more fully?

The next interview in my Finding Time HeartBased and EducationRich Teleseries is at 7PM (ET) on Tuesday, September 14 with Soulful Coach Joanna Lindenbaum. Our topic? Activating Your Inner Wisdom: How to Bring Joy and Success into Your Life. Sign up and join us for this free, info-packed teleclass! When you listen to that wise voice inside, the sky’s the limit!

What if you could find another hour every day? You can! You are invited to sign up for your FREE Finding Time Success Kit. It puts 3 key tools for your time success right into your hands! Grab it and see how you can recharge your energy, reduce overwhelm and frustration, and come to learn that 24 hours really ARE enough!

Let’s explore time together …

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Find Time for August’s Time Finder Favorites

Posted on September 1, 2010, under Time After Time.

Finding time to welcome a new month always has an aura of excitement and anticipation, doesn’t it?  It’s a new beginning.  What will it hold for each of us?

Looking ahead is, for me, deepened and enhanced by a pause to look back.  That’s why I so enjoy the opportunity, each month, to scan what Time Finder readers have been most drawn to over the past 4 weeks.  So here’s our list of Time Finder Favorites for August 2010!

Creativity was at the top of the list, as many of you perused “Find Time for Creativity: When to Grab Your Inspiration and When to Let it Go!” – and quite a few attended our teleclass with Ellene Breedlove Davis, too!  This post looks at some tips to help you hang onto your creative ideas so that you have them accessible when you’ve got the time to work on them.  AND, it also offers some ideas about when you may need to let some ideas go so that you don’t overwhelm yourself with them.  Balance is always so key, isn’t it?

Your second favorite post was “Find Time to Be Brave and Create.”  This post jumps off from a van Gogh quote:  “If you hear a voice within you say, ‘You cannot paint,’ then by all means paint, and that voice will be silenced.”  It looks at what encourages our creativity and what constrains it … ideas which were further explored on our call.

Next up?  “Finding Time to Turn Worry into Welcome, Using a Simple Question” is an empowering post that can transform debilitating worry and shift your perspective entirely.  How? 
You’ll have to read the post to find out … ;)

Fourth and fifth on our list come a post about abundance and a post about Twitter Tools.

Did you have a favorite Time Finder post that we missed?  Add a comment about it – we’d love to hear!

And here’s an idea … Want to explore your Wise Inner Voice more fully? The next interview in my Finding Time HeartBased and EducationRich Teleseries is at 7PM (ET) on Tuesday, September 14 with Soulful Coach Joanna Lindenbaum. Our topic? Activating Your Inner Wisdom: How to Bring Joy and Success into Your Life. Sign up and join us for this free, info-packed teleclass! When you listen to that wise voice inside, the sky’s the limit!

What if you could find another hour every day? You can! You are invited to sign up for your FREE Finding Time Success Kit. It puts 3 key tools for your time success right into your hands! Grab it and see how you can recharge your energy, reduce overwhelm and frustration, and come to learn that 24 hours really ARE enough!

Let’s explore time together …

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Find Time to Get One Step Beyond Stuck

Posted on August 31, 2010, under Time Choices, Time Management Skills.

Finding time to listen to yourself, as I mentioned last week, gives that extra spark and sparkle to your day. You are just the person to lift yourself out of the doldrums, day or night.

It can be especially important to listen to that calm, wise voice inside when you just can’t seem to budge on an important task. Call it flummoxed, frustrated or bamboozled … when you are engaged in a prized project, or even fulfilling an ornery obligation, getting stuck can sour your whole day!

So what can you do?

Here’s an excellent strategy to help you step beyond stuck:  Try asking yourself questions and listening carefully to your answers.   Engaging with yourself in this way will get you going again, as it helps your brain transition from old ruts to new routes.

Your goal here is to exercise your mind’s innate flexibility rather than to stay mired in a funk. Many states of mind contribute to feeling stymied, of course. Fear, self-criticism, perfectionism, and resentment can be just a few of the culprits … but fortunately, they tend to share distortions that the right questions can illuminate … and then evaporate.

Here are 2 of my favorite questions:

1) What’s the next TINY step I can take?

Being clear with yourself that this is to be a SMALL step relieves any pressure you might be feeling.  When you’re stuck, any step of any size is just fine; what matters is that you mobilize yourself.  You may discover that insights eluding you now will pop up once you’re fully engaged.

Chunking projects down to their smallest increments also helps you to assign a realistic time frame. This is an excellent antidote to overwhelm!

2) How would I encourage SOMEONE ELSE to proceed?

You know you give good advice! Why not benefit from some of it yourself? The inner wisdom that you tap for a friend in need is just as likely to help you!

Sometimes, all you need to do is to remove yourself from the equation. Then, the next step seems quite straightforward. Why? You are calling on a neutral, benevolent part of yourself to offer advice.

This is a wonderful conversation to cultivate throughout the rest of your project, particularly if you have been feeling helpless or self-critical!  Before you know it, you will be back in the saddle, and moving in the right direction!

What if you could find another hour every day? You can! You are invited to sign up for your FREE Finding Time Success Kit. It puts 3 key tools for your time success right into your hands! Grab it and see how you can recharge your energy, reduce overwhelm and frustration, and come to learn that 24 hours really ARE enough!

Let’s explore time together …

Would you like to explore your Wise Inner Voice more fully? The next interview in my Finding Time HeartBased and EducationRich Teleseries is at 7PM (ET) on Tuesday, September 14 with Soulful Coach Joanna Lindenbaum. Our topic? Activating Your Inner Wisdom: How to Bring Joy and Success into Your Life. Sign up and join us for this free, info-packed teleclass! When you listen to that wise voice inside, the sky’s the limit!

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Find Time on Cyber Monday: Here are Some Quick Google Search Tips for You!

Posted on August 30, 2010, under Time and Technology.

GooglingFinding time when you are working on-line is an ever-evolving process. That’s because your needs and interests keep changing, as do the on-line tools for finding what you need on the web.  So, doing your best to keep up with the latest efficiencies and innovations can really help to save you time in this fast-paced milieu.

Perhaps the most ubiquitous tool on the web right now is Google.  This search engine giant is your doorway to, quite literally, millions … or, more accurately, billions … of bits of information.  From the weather forecast to the correct spelling of a word to books and poems and TV shows, Google is, for many, where the journey starts.

That’s why, this Cyber Monday, I was so pleased to find some articles offering some quick Google search tips.  The first is by Simon Mackie and is titled “10 Simple Google Search Tricks.”

Here’s just one of the tips he shares … using Google search as a way to check your spelling when you’re unsure.  It’s so much quicker than reaching for the dictionary when you’re in the middle of writing something.  Give it a try!  You can also check definitions very quickly that way, just to be sure that you’re using a word correctly.

There are also some very interesting possibilities offered in this article – ways to use different “operators” to narrow your search.  For example, here’s one that many might be able to relate to …

Exclude specific terms with the – operator. You can narrow your searches using this operator. For example, if you’re looking for information about American Idol but don’t want anything about Simon Cowell, you could try: “american idol” -cowell

Then we’ve got some tips from Google itself!  I love the fill-in-the-blank suggestion:  “Madam Curie died in.”  That search yields the following top result on Google:

Marie Curie Died — 4 July 1934 (aged 66) Passy, France

Are there time-saving tricks that you use when searching on Google?  Drop me a line or write a comment here – I’d love to share more search tips with everyone!

What if you could find another hour every day? You can! You are invited to sign up for your FREE Finding Time Success Kit. It puts 3 key tools for your time success right into your hands! Grab it and see how you can recharge your energy, reduce overwhelm and frustration, and come to learn that 24 hours really ARE enough!

Let’s explore time together … and here’s a great way to do that … an upcoming teleclass that you’ll want to get onto your calendar today!

Want to explore your Wise Inner Voice more fully? The next interview in my Finding Time HeartBased and EducationRich Teleseries is at 7PM (ET) on Tuesday, September 14 with Soulful Coach Joanna Lindenbaum. Our topic? Activating Your Inner Wisdom: How to Bring Joy and Success into Your Life. Sign up and join us for this free, info-packed teleclass! When you listen to that wise voice inside, the sky’s the limit!

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Find Time to Listen to YOU!

Posted on August 26, 2010, under Time and Energy, Time and Values.

Finding time to listen to yourself is so important, and sounds so easy … and yet, so often, it seems to be the last thing that we get to … or the first thing we let go of.  Can you relate?

Picture your day unfolding.  You have priorities and a plan … and everything is going along right on schedule.  Then something unexpected happens and you need to re-prioritize.

What’s the most likely thing to get jettisoned?  I’m guessing that it will be that half hour you had planned for meditation or journaling or for a quiet walk.  Too often, the time slots we reserve for self care or reflection or for simply checking in with ourselves don’t carry as much weight as other priorities.

We tend to not see these things as our responsibility or as key ingredients in our life’s work …. but they are.  In fact, I would argue that these activities – these opportunities to LISTEN to ourselves – are precisely what allow us to carry on our life’s work in the most meaningful, HeartBased and SpiritDriven way possible!  Listening keeps you connected with YOU and with the deep and personal wisdom that you carry inside.

Here’s another scenario.  Again, imagine that your day is buzzing along and you are accomplishing things left and right.  Gradually, though, something starts feeling “off” to you.  You are cranky, depleted, and can’t wait for the day to just be over.

What do you do?  I’m guessing that many or most of us just plough through with whatever is on our To Do lists.  But what if you stopped right then and took some time to LISTEN to yourself?

When you greet these unexpected and unplanned moments with compassion and curiosity, they can provide openings into deeper self knowledge.  That’s because whatever is pulling at you ALWAYS has something interesting and important to say.  It’s all in how you approach this inner voice.  If you are annoyed and impatient, then, like anyone would, your inner voice is likely to clam up.  But when you are interested and allow it space, you’ll be amazed at what you learn!

Want to explore your Wise Inner Voice more fully?  The next interview in my Finding Time HeartBased and EducationRich Teleseries is at 7PM (ET) on Tuesday, September 14 with Soulful Coach Joanna Lindenbaum.  Our topic?  Activating Your Inner Wisdom: How to Bring Joy and Success into Your Life.  Sign up and join us for this free, info-packed teleclass!  When you listen to that wise voice inside, the sky’s the limit!

What if you could find another hour every day? You can! You are invited to sign up for your FREE Finding Time Success Kit. It puts 3 key tools for your time success right into your hands! Grab it and see how you can recharge your energy, reduce overwhelm and frustration, and come to learn that 24 hours really ARE enough!

Let’s explore time together …

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Find Time to Start Your Transition into Fall

Posted on August 24, 2010, under Transitions and Time.

Finding time for transitions is a powerful and empowering skill in your collection of time management tools.  Wisely navigating transitions is, at heart, about making journeys.  So, as any seasoned traveler well knows, it’s important to take with you what you’ll need … and leave behind what it’s no longer necessary to carry.

Here’s an excellent blog post from Soulful Coach Joanna Lindenbaum that explores “The Three Most Important Questions to Ask Yourself When Moving Through a Transition.“  as she notes:  “In addition to all of the joys or challenges that come along with it, a time of transition is also an opportunity to create new beginnings and harness the energy of the change to really move you forward in significant ways.”

Whether your transition is a major life change or part of a seasonal rhythm, balancing what you carry with you and what you leave behind is key.  Your choices have the power to make every transition an opening.

Indeed, even the smallest steps in this journey can always offer a passage to something deeper and more meaning-filled! One of the gifts of our lives as humans is that we are presented with opportunities to learn about transitions at almost every turn.

Think about it.  Each morning we move from first waking into our day … and then we close out our days every night.  We make four seasonal transitions each year.

These rhythms mark our lives and offer us frequent opportunities to take in the deeper rhythms of letting go and holding on.  As we open to our feelings around these smaller transitions, we prepare for the larger, life-altering transitions that are guaranteed to come our way.

As August winds down, can you begin to feel fall in the air?  What kinds of feelings does it evoke for you?  Are there echoes of that back-to-school excitement (or dread) that you used to experience as a kid?  How does that color your approach to this transition?

It’s not too early to start thinking about what you’ll be letting go of, as summer wanes, and what you’ll carry forward into autumn.  What do you need to say good-bye to?  And what do you want to greet?

I invite you to explore these questions, along with Joanna’s, and deepen your experience of your transitions.  Drop me a line and let me know how it goes and what you learn … I’d love to hear!

PS Just a quick reminder that, though the call with Artist and Creativity Coach Ellene Breedlove Davis is over, you can still access the FREE MP3 by clicking the link for: Finding Time to Be Creative: Portrait of the Artist. When you use your creativity to enhance your life, you will develop even more incentive for developing your best ideas and making them a reality.

What if you could find another hour every day? You can! You are invited to sign up for your FREE Finding Time Success Kit. It puts 3 key tools for your time success right into your hands! Grab it and see how you can recharge your energy, reduce overwhelm and frustration, and come to learn that 24 hours really ARE enough!

Let’s explore time together …

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Find Time to Explore Some Twitter Tools on Cyber Monday

Posted on August 23, 2010, under Time and Technology.

Finding time to make the most of your social networking efforts is an ever-evolving challenge, isn’t it?  It can be daunting to keep up with the changes in Facebook and with your ever-evolving list of friends and followers on Twitter.

That’s why we like to try to bring you new tools that can help make the work more efficient, more effective … and even more enjoyable!

Recently, we’ve been exploring three tools here at The Time Finder that I’d like to share with you.  They serve three very distinct purposes:

  • Cleaning up your list of tweeps,
  • Extending your reach and focusing your tweets so that they go to the people who are most likely to share your interests, and
  • Automating your tweets so that more people are likely to read them.

First, the clean-up:  I invite you to take a look at Tweepi to get a good overview of who you follow that isn’t following you, and vice versa.  This tool is fast and efficient, and offers you the opportunity to sort within categories, target your searches, and follow or unfollow multiple tweeps at once.  We have been finding it very helpful in managing our list here!

Next, honing the focus of your list:  This is where we’ve been experimenting with BlastFollow! and finding it, too, to be an excellent addition to our Twitter Toolbox.  With BlastFollow! what you do is enter a hashtag in the box they provide.  They’ll come up with a list of tweeps who’ve used that hashtag.  If you want to follow them, just enter your username and password, and BlastFollow! will do the rest.  What a quick way to add tweeps in your niche to your list!

Finally, for timely tweets, there’s Twaitter – a service that you can use (like SocialOomph) to automate your tweets.  This can be an excellent tool for sending messages at times you know you’ll be away, for example.  Twaitter, unlike SocialOomph, offers the capacity to set up recurring tweets for free.  (SocialOomph has this in the paid version.)

As we explore these, and other, Twitter Tools, we’ll keep you updated.  In the meantime, if you try one of these tools, let us know what you think!  (And one time management tip:  Set your timer before you start trying these out – they can be addictive!)

What if you could find another hour every day? You can! You are invited to sign up for your FREE Finding Time Success Kit. It puts 3 key tools for your time success right into your hands! Grab it and see how you can recharge your energy, reduce overwhelm and frustration, and come to learn that 24 hours really ARE enough!

Let’s explore time together …

PS: Just a quick reminder that, though the call with Artist and Creativity Coach Ellene Breedlove Davis is over, you can still access the FREE MP3 by clicking the link for: Finding Time to Be Creative: Portrait of the Artist. When you use your creativity to enhance your life, you will develop even more incentive for developing your best ideas and making them a reality.

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Find Time Today: Move Some Priorities to the Bottom of Your List!

Posted on August 20, 2010, under Ask Paula, Time Priorities.

Finding time by setting priorities is a wonderful way to organize yourself.  But here’s a recent question from a reader that illustrates a common challenge when prioritizing.

Susan A. of Portland, Oregon wrote:

Dear Paula,

I have always tried to set priorities when I create my to-do list. My problem is that I have a tendency to think that every task is a high priority. Could you help me by explaining what a low priority task looks like?

Sincerely,

Susan A.

Dear Susan,

Your question is one that many people ask. One of the most difficult aspects of setting priorities is to develop a habit of not making everything a high priority.

You might want to set yourself this goal: Try to assign at least 50% of the tasks on your to-do list as a medium or low priority.

  • A low priority task is one that can be deferred without a negative impact on anything if it doesn’t get completed.
  • Also, a low priority task is one that can be moved to another day without any adverse consequences.

Keep in mind, when setting priorities, that being flexible and reality-based is key.  Situations change every day, and you may, quite often, have a legitimate reason to re-order your priorities.  Tasks that looked very important on Sunday night, may look different on Wednesday, after you have gained more information or the context has evolved.

In thinking about your top priorities, be rigorous about what belongs in that slot.  Stephen Covey suggests keeping two words in mind while setting priorities. One is ‘urgent’ and the other is ‘important’. The best guide for determining which task is the highest priority is to select the task on your to-do list that is both urgent and important. Some tasks may be one or the other, but only the one that is both belongs at the top.

Likewise, you may find it helpful to establish a “bottom” priority.  You may even have a small collection of tasks that fit this bill.  They would typically be things that can be deferred without dire consequence, but that it would be nice to accomplish.  Putting vacation photos into an album is something that springs to mind.  Or, perhaps, reorganizing a seldom-used closet.

Breaking your tasks up into smaller pieces (“chunking” them) may also help.  Even if you don’t have enough time to complete a task, you can use the time available to get it started.  Some of these “chunks” might be lower-level priorities, but completing them will help move a higher priority task along.

It’s helpful to choose a time to review your next day’s to-do list and the priorities you’ve established. Look at both the task and the priority you’ve assigned it.  This allows you to flex and fine-tune your priorities as you plan.  You might even take a minute or two and visualize each task. This mental rehearsal enables you to identify the number of steps required to complete a task and keeps your stress level down.

I hope that some of these ideas resonate for you, Susan … and I’d love to hear how your prioritizing evolves over time.

Best,

Paula

PS  Just a quick reminder that, though the call with Artist and Creativity Coach Ellene Breedlove Davis is over, you can still access the FREE MP3 by clicking the link for:  Finding Time to Be Creative: Portrait of the Artist.  When you use your creativity to enhance your life, you will develop even more incentive for developing your best ideas and making them a reality.

What if you could find another hour every day? You can! You are invited to sign up for your FREE Finding Time Success Kit. It puts 3 key tools for your time success right into your hands! Grab it and see how you can recharge your energy, reduce overwhelm and frustration, and come to learn that 24 hours really ARE enough!

Let’s explore time together …

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Finding Time to Turn Worry into Welcome, Using a Simple Question

Posted on August 17, 2010, under Time and Energy.

Finding time to savor your life can become so much easier as you learn the skill of introducing simple attitude shifts to your day.

Very often, if you feel yourself slipping into a rut of fear, anxiety, or negativity, something as easy as pausing and asking yourself the right question will tickle your mind into exploring a fresh, new approach!  As you practice and get comfortable with this skill, I think you will be amazed at how quickly and significantly you can shift your own perspective.

Here’s a great example: How do you act when an unfamiliar challenge pops up? Do you automatically brace yourself! That’s a very familiar response for many.

But did you know that tensing your body inhibits your creativity, too?

That’s because, just as fear freezes your body, it also calcifies your options. Likewise, anxiety creates a simplistic either/or scarcity mentality – not the best mindset for creative thinking! So you can see how, when fear takes the driver’s seat, you’ll find it harder to prioritize, harder to solve problems and make decisions, and harder to keep to a healthy schedule.

But there’s good news about all this!  You can swiftly overcome this natural tendency with another natural impulse – curiosity!

Curiosity is one of the great antidotes to fear, and provides the perfect climate for learning.  Mobilizing your curiosity also actually changes you for the better! That’s because you stop focusing self-consciously on the you-who-doesn’t-know, and shift into the you-who-is-eager-to-figure-it-out.

Give it a try! Any time you notice yourself apprehensively thinking, “What if … ?” try replacing that with “I wonder what … ?” It feels SO much better!

As you regain your inner balance with this simple question, you will find it much easier to ride the new wave of change with smart time choices.  Try it and see … and let me know how it goes for you … I’d love to hear!

And don’t forget to leave room for curiously exploring your creative soul! Though the call with Artist and Creativity Coach Ellene Breedlove Davis is over, you can still access the FREE MP3 by clicking the link for: Finding Time to Be Creative: Portrait of the Artist. When you use your creativity to enhance your life, you will develop even more incentive for developing your best ideas and making them a reality.

What if you could find another hour every day? You can! You are invited to sign up for your FREE Finding Time Success Kit. It puts 3 key tools for your time success right into your hands! Grab it and see how you can recharge your energy, reduce overwhelm and frustration, and come to learn that 24 hours really ARE enough!

Let’s explore time together …

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Find Abundant Time with a Quick Shift of Perspective

Posted on August 16, 2010, under Time and Energy.

Finding time that feels spacious and energizing lifts you out of the doldrums!

So how can you find quality time that frees you?  Sometimes it’s simply a quick change in attitude that brings the sunshine right inside you. 

Here’s one mantra that I’ve found helpful:

Engaging fulfills me, acquiring depletes me!

This is a powerful perspective to cultivate. Shifting your goal from acquiring to engaging expands both your vitality AND your sense of time!  Here’s a quick example of how this works in practice:

Let’s say you must meet with people you don’t know well. Perhaps they might help advance your career. You nervously wonder if you have what they’re looking for. If only you had more time to prepare! Your energy starts to drop.

Then, you remind yourself; you’ll manage well enough regardless, AND you have an idea you’d love to share with them. Suddenly, your energy and enthusiasm return! As you relax, you enter into spacious time.

How did you achieve this turnaround?  By “rediscovering” your inner abundance!

With a seemingly small shift, you moved yourself from a scarcity perspective, where you felt anxious to acquire something, to an abundance mentality.  Coming from that mentality of abundance, you remember that you have something that you want to offer.  When you are acting from that place your energy is very different – not constricted and anxious … rather, it is expansive and freeing!

This is the daily magic of wholehearted engagement. It’s like diving into a wave and letting it carry you forward as it crests. Your desire to participate fully in life and in the moment opens your heart and your mind. You fully savor the moment, where all of your power of choice resides!

You are far more likely to feel contented at the end of a day of open-handed involvement. Try it and see … and let me know how it goes for you … I’d love to hear!

And don’t forget nourishment for your creative soul!  Though the call with Artist and Creativity Coach Ellene Breedlove Davis is over, you can still access the FREE MP3 by clicking the link for:  Finding Time to Be Creative: Portrait of the Artist.  When you use your creativity to enhance your life, you will develop even more incentive for developing your best ideas and making them a reality.

What if you could find another hour every day? You can! You are invited to sign up for your FREE Finding Time Success Kit. It puts 3 key tools for your time success right into your hands! Grab it and see how you can recharge your energy, reduce overwhelm and frustration, and come to learn that 24 hours really ARE enough!

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